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10/28/2008 8:46:35 PM
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bellababe
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My boyfriend is pretty...idk, difficult sometimes, im not sure if i should break up with him, i liked him because i thought he was romantci and was into emo music and poetry, but he himself is not emo and the more i get to know him the more i think hes too impulsive and not my type, i really loved him but now hes just not attracting me in the same way i use to be, should i break up with him? And how? (we have a long-distance relationship so i cant do it to his face at the moment and i dont want to wait for a month aka the next time i will see him)
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10/29/2008 2:19:49 AM
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cool.chick
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Well, other's already know how I feel on relationships in general... so here's my advice to you. Dump him! Seriously, there is no point in being in a "relationship" at a young age. You still have so much living to do that you really don't need the distraction of a relationship. Life changes so fast and so much from the ages of 13 on up and the guy who you think is "right" now will be "wrong" a year later. Think... how many married people do you know who have been together since they were in their teens? Very very few at best!
I think you can just be honest with him. It may be difficult to do and difficult for him, but being straight up will be the best thing in the long run.
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The coolest danm chick you'll ever meet! I like fun, getting to know what it means to be "emo", and learning new things. I spend a lot of time at home, so some call me boring. I think I'm cool.
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10/29/2008 9:59:34 AM
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Indestructible
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i agree with cool chick. he seemed to have a good facade when he first met you. especially considering its a long distance relationship and alot of the time those never work. plus you seem to be in a hurry to find the one you love and want so badly to be with that special person that it clouds your judgement correct me if im wrong. thats how i u used to be and it kept me up at night. ALOT.
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10/31/2008 4:20:51 AM
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Born-to-Die
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I agree too long distance relationship never end up working and if ur not feeling it f0r him anymore, y0u shouldnt hesitate to let him go, you should be having fun not getting into the complex world of relationships..
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She's simple yet confusing
Her sparkling eyes make me weak at my words, they tremble
Days seem like years in this month of December
The winter coldens me for I have yet to sleep
And never will I give up trying 'cause you're everything to me
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11/1/2008 9:00:02 AM
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.Black..Stars..Kill.
Posts 620
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have you dumped him yet???
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11/4/2008 10:03:41 PM
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bellababe
Posts 303
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Black_Stars_Kill wrote:
have you dumped him yet???
i sent him an email just now that i want to be friends for the moment, his legak guardians hate my guts anyways (i blamed it on that) and take a guess why.....who wants there kid dating a blue haired emo girl?
edited by BellaBabe on 11/4/2008
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11/5/2008 12:58:22 AM
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Hell's Little Angel
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BellaBabe wrote:
Black_Stars_Kill wrote: have you dumped him yet??? i sent him an email just now that i want to be friends for the moment, his legak guardians hate my guts anyways (i blamed it on that) and take a guess why.....who wants there kid dating a blue haired emo girl? edited by BellaBabe on 11/4/2008
Take my opinion as you will, but I think the blue hair look is actually very hot. It's kinda like an anime style with emo mixed in. From your pic you're a good looking gal. With that being said, wtf do you even NEED a boyfriend? That's the stuff I'll never understand. I'll never get into a committed relationship because they're just work and headaches (for both sides). You're attractive, young, seem cool... again, what do you need a boyfriend for???  Just go enjoy life and not worry about that shit. Geesh.
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11/9/2008 6:54:33 PM
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bellababe
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Hell's Little Angel wrote:
BellaBabe wrote: Black_Stars_Kill wrote: have you dumped him yet??? i sent him an email just now that i want to be friends for the moment, his legak guardians hate my guts anyways (i blamed it on that) and take a guess why.....who wants there kid dating a blue haired emo girl? edited by BellaBabe on 11/4/2008 Take my opinion as you will, but I think the blue hair look is actually very hot. It's kinda like an anime style with emo mixed in. From your pic you're a good looking gal. With that being said, wtf do you even NEED a boyfriend? That's the stuff I'll never understand. I'll never get into a committed relationship because they're just work and headaches (for both sides). You're attractive, young, seem cool... again, what do you need a boyfriend for??? Just go enjoy life and not worry about that shit. Geesh.
Well, I'd like love in my life but there is a diffrence between love and sex. I dont NEED an active sex life, but if i was in love i would probably have sex becuz i need love to have sex, and what about you? What if one of those girls that u think r nice just to have some action with had something in common with you and you liked her? Would u then commit, maybe u should give it a try, evryone gets in arguements were only human (most of us anyways) and so maybe u just need to have the right person and things wont be so hard, some of the best relationships have gone through tough times, its sticking together in the end that makes u know its right and that u love the other person. ....off topic....what is permalink?
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11/20/2008 7:48:32 PM
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XxTheXChallengedxX
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well in response to the negative comment here uhm well some people need that person beside them to help them to be more stabalized and i know that it doesnt make sense to us but trust me on this subject i know bout this and well especially those of us that have had troubles in our past we need someone to go to and have an open shoulder that we can cry on
and wats even more remarkable is that im saying this
and im a dude
most people dont get that
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i can feel my body go numb without you
i feel my hands lose feeling without your touch
my eyes go blind without beautiful voice
i can feel a bullet through my head without your love
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11/22/2008 4:51:52 AM
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.Black..Stars..Kill.
Posts 620
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has anything more happened?
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11/22/2008 9:11:50 AM
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bellababe
Posts 303
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.Black..Stars..Kill. wrote:
has anything more happened?
we got back together........THIS IS SO DIFFICULT (rips blue hair out in frustration)
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11/22/2008 3:51:20 PM
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FrostyBoi
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haha
well, if at the moment ur happi with them then obviously stay with it bt if you're not sure u wanna be wiv him dnt lead him on init
cuz ive been there, nd its nt nice wen the girl cnt make her mind up
so basically, if ur happi wiv him nd the majority of u is fine wiv it thn go for it, but if tis the other way round then it will all end in hartbreak (on his part mainly) so fink about how u feel for him nd if most of u dsnt wnt 2 be wiv him or isnt sure, DON'T!
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11/24/2008 1:46:08 AM
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kittenspuppiesandponies
Posts 134
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think before you do
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11/25/2008 7:50:15 PM
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bellababe
Posts 303
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FrostyBoi wrote:
haha
well, if at the moment ur happi with them then obviously stay with it bt if you're not sure u wanna be wiv him dnt lead him on init
cuz ive been there, nd its nt nice wen the girl cnt make her mind up
so basically, if ur happi wiv him nd the majority of u is fine wiv it thn go for it, but if tis the other way round then it will all end in hartbreak (on his part mainly) so fink about how u feel for him nd if most of u dsnt wnt 2 be wiv him or isnt sure, DON'T!
im pretty confused hes...all over me. then hes ditsant. then all over me (not physically i mean like asking me how i am and just being near me, etc) gone. hes just so on and off. hot and cold. hes driving me freakin mad, its like if he wants to be together then we just should be, is that such a big problem? Maybe i should hold out, i mean im just afraid hes the best that will come along and nobody will love and care about me anymore once hes gone, becuz hes the only person that really does, and then i will feel all alone and...ugh its a huge mess in my mind. this is how i feel at the moment lol: 
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11/26/2008 12:18:02 AM
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black_haru
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BellaBabe wrote:
im pretty confused hes...all over me. then hes ditsant. then all over me (not physically i mean like asking me how i am and just being near me, etc) gone. hes just so on and off. hot and cold. hes driving me freakin mad, its like if he wants to be together then we just should be, is that such a big problem? Maybe i should hold out, i mean im just afraid hes the best that will come along and nobody will love and care about me anymore once hes gone, becuz hes the only person that really does, and then i will feel all alone and...ugh its a huge mess in my mind. this is how i feel at the moment lol:
im sure someone else with love you more then this guy
but... you don't have to have a boyfriend to be happy....
i'v never ever had a boyfriend and im as happy as larry! soo thats a stupid theory
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